Here's an interesting thought:
Ask 100 attractive women if they know what thewords "Chemistry" and "Sexual Tension" mean,they'll all nod their heads and say "Of course!".
Ask 100 guys off the street if they know whatthe words "Chemistry" and "Sexual Tension" mean,and about 98 of them will give you a dumb look andsay "Uh, not really".
A few will probably say things like "Um, isSexual Tension like... when you and a chick arehaving sex in a weird position and you get acramp... right?".
The reality of this situation is that mostattractive women know EXACTLY what Chemistry andSexual Tension are... and they can describe themin DETAIL... but most men have literally NOIDEA... they're completely clueless.
Think about that.
I'm talking about an incredible phenomenon here...
How is it POSSIBLE that one of the mostimportant aspects of attracting a woman issomething that most men know NOTHING about?
And how is it that almost ALL attractive womenare totally "in the know" about this stuff?
Is there some kind of strange conspiracyagainst men?
Are women keeping a secret from us guys just sowe won't be able to break the code?
Maybe.
I mean, think about it...
If you were an attractive woman, would you wantto find a guy that you had to TEACH the conceptsof Chemistry and Sexual Tension to... or would youwant a guy who just "got it" on his own..."naturally"?
Duh.
You'd want the guy who already "got it".
So more likely than a conspiracy againstclueless men, women just naturally respond to menwho GET IT, and DON'T respond to men who DON'T.
So let's talk about these concepts a little bitmore.
When a woman uses the word "Chemistry", as in"There was chemistry between us" or "I want tomeet a man and have natural chemistry", she'stalking about ATTRACTION.
Chemistry is about a woman perceiving that sheand a guy are "naturally compatible" because heremotional and physical sparks fly when she meetsor is around that guy.
NOTE: I did NOT use the word "logical" here.
Chemistry is NOT the result of a woman meetinga man and then thinking to herself "Let's see...he is six feet tall, has a good job making 37%more than the medial salary, is the correct agefor child rearing... I think that we have anatural chemistry...".
Nooooo way.
For a woman, Chemistry is either THERE, or itISN'T.
There's no two ways about it.
Unfortunately, most guys hear the word"Chemistry" and they think it somehow equates to"The guy must be good-looking so the girl thinkshe's sexy... and since I'm NOT the most handsomeguy alive, women won't feel it with ME".
This is only because most guys don't get thatyou can make a woman feel ATTRACTION for youREGARDLESS of your looks, age, income, height, oranything else.
So let me repeat:
"Chemistry is about a woman perceiving that sheand a guy are "naturally compatible" because heremotional and physical sparks fly when she meetsor is around that guy."
Now let's talk about Sexual Tension.
Sexual Tension is about the interaction.
It's that feeling you get when you're in thepresence of someone you're attracted to, but thereare OBSTACLES, ANTICIPATION, HUMOR, and/or otheringredients in the mix that both increase theATTRACTION, and increase the TENSION in the situation.
Sexual Tension is the combination of beingpulled toward someone, but also feeling resistanceat the same time.
It's about not knowing what's going to happen,but being on the edge of your seat WANTING to knowwhat's going to happen.
Think of it this way...
If a woman KNOWS that she has you right fromthe beginning, she won't be as interested... this is why so many guys kill their chances with a girlinstantly by going "overboard" and doing too manythings to demonstrate his interest.
But if she DOESN'T know whether or not you'reinterested, and you keep the mystery up, whilemaking her more and more interested, she willthink about you ALL THE TIME.
This is creating Chemistry, and increasing theSexual Tension.
Will a woman feel more ATTRACTION for a guy whoalways talks to her when he sees her, always callsher, and is always available?
No.
She'll feel more attraction if he's moremysterious, challenging, and unpredictable.
Remember, Sexual Tension is GOOD for attraction, not bad for it...
So let's talk about some great ways to createSexual Tension... which will NATURALLY lead tothat magical feeling of CHEMISTRY.
Here are a few of my favorite ways to createand amplify Sexual Tension:
1) BE COCKY & FUNNY
Being Cocky & Funny, or using Cocky Comedy, isa fun, interesting, enjoyable way to create andamplify Sexual Tension.
The formula is:...
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